Is There Such Thing As Mr. Right???
Ever since I was a little girl people have been telling me that one day I'll find my Mr. Right. Well I'm 30 yrs old, and I'm beginning to think that Mr. Right is just a myth kinda like Santa Claus or the Tooth Fairy. There's nothing wrong with believing that there is that "perfect someone" for everyone. I just think that in this day in age with society changing and the world evolving........I think Mr. Right is evolving, too.
I think it's scary to call a guy you love........."Mr. Right". By labeling him the "perfect man"......that guy has so many expectations to fill and a reputation he has to live up to. When there is something that he does that is less than perfect or not right, then Mr. Right turns into.......Mr. OK So You're Not So Perfect But I Love You Anyways. And, also........what happens to Mr. Right in let's say 5....10....20.....30 years? Will Mr. Right still be Mr. Right or will he evolve into Mr. You Annoy Me........or Mr. You Don't Give Me Attention.........or Mr. Boring in Bed......... Mr. Disappointment............or worst of all turning into another MR. WRONG. Then when THAT happens - that's when you get together with the girls, pig out on ice cream, drink lots of wine, complain about how men suck.........then get the same advice you get every time - "Don't Worry.......You'll find Mr. Right one day". Then you are back to where you began.
I know I'm far from perfect. And, I feel sorry for any guy who thinks that I'm their "Mrs. Right". Maybe I'm just destined to be single all my life. I'm so picky with men but at the same time I love them all. This world is so confusing. Divorce is just as popular as marriage........and you'll see more and more kids calling one of their parents by their first name. What's wrong with people these days? How come people are finding it hard to stay together?
Who knows? Maybe I really haven't found my "Mr. Right". But is there such thing? Or does Mr. Right come with an expiration date???
Things that make me go.....Hmmmmmmmm
""Men are like a deck of cards. You'll find the occasional king, but most are jacks."
- Laura Swenson
I think it's scary to call a guy you love........."Mr. Right". By labeling him the "perfect man"......that guy has so many expectations to fill and a reputation he has to live up to. When there is something that he does that is less than perfect or not right, then Mr. Right turns into.......Mr. OK So You're Not So Perfect But I Love You Anyways. And, also........what happens to Mr. Right in let's say 5....10....20.....30 years? Will Mr. Right still be Mr. Right or will he evolve into Mr. You Annoy Me........or Mr. You Don't Give Me Attention.........or Mr. Boring in Bed......... Mr. Disappointment............or worst of all turning into another MR. WRONG. Then when THAT happens - that's when you get together with the girls, pig out on ice cream, drink lots of wine, complain about how men suck.........then get the same advice you get every time - "Don't Worry.......You'll find Mr. Right one day". Then you are back to where you began.
I know I'm far from perfect. And, I feel sorry for any guy who thinks that I'm their "Mrs. Right". Maybe I'm just destined to be single all my life. I'm so picky with men but at the same time I love them all. This world is so confusing. Divorce is just as popular as marriage........and you'll see more and more kids calling one of their parents by their first name. What's wrong with people these days? How come people are finding it hard to stay together?
Who knows? Maybe I really haven't found my "Mr. Right". But is there such thing? Or does Mr. Right come with an expiration date???
Things that make me go.....Hmmmmmmmm
""Men are like a deck of cards. You'll find the occasional king, but most are jacks."
- Laura Swenson
posted by Heidi at 4:12 PM
2 Comments:
i am positive there is no one out there for you.
just kidding...
personally, i don't think i can ever love anyone as much as i want to be loved... so, there lies true irony and hypocrisy.
when i am not willing to love someone with my all, how could anyone ever love me with her all...
Personally, I think I'm extremely difficult to be loved. I enjoy my freedom too much and my free spirited bubbly personality. Those traits are what attracts men to me but they are also the biggest flaws later on in the relationship. Yeah - I'm destined to be single.
Damn....I think I need a drink now!
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